Tuesday, August 5, 2008

Salah siapa kita di sini?

Sudah menjadi tabiat semulajadi manusia untuk menyalahkan orang atau benda lain jika ditimpa malang atau ditimpa masalah. Jarang ada yang menerima hakikat akan kesalahan diri sendiri. Realitinya menyalahkan orang lain adalah lebih mudah, tak perlu banyak fikir dan merupakan penyelesaian yang cepat.

Namun sebenarnya sikap seumpama ini membuatkan kita tidak menyedari akan masalah sebenarnya. Jika kita cermin diri dan minta pandangan pihak ketiga kita akan menyedari setiap masalah yang muncul atau datang, ada kaitan rapat dengan diri kita sendiri. Pada asasnya setiap gerak laku, sikap, pergaulan serta persepsi kita terhadap dunia memainkan peranan penting terhadap apa yang menimpa atau bakal menimpa diri kita. Saya pernah terbaca:

‘Define the problem as a person and you are in trouble. Define the problem as difficult behavior, you can do something about it’
Maksudnya jika kita sentiasa menyalahkan orang lain maka masalah yang dihadapi akan diganti dengan masalah yang lebih besar. Namun jika kita dapat mengenalpasti perkaitan diantara sikap kita dengan masalah yang kita hadapi, kita akan dapat menyelesaikan masalah tersebut dengan mudah. Jika kita mempunyai kemahiran serta kesedaran ini, masalah di rumah, di tempat kerja atau di mana-mana dapat di atasi dengan lebih produktif. Ia juga boleh mengurangkan tekanan kerja serta tekanan emosi. Kita tidak akan mampu menyelesaikan masalah dengan mengubah dunia atau orang lain, namun cara yang mampu kita lakukan dan paling mudah ialah mengubah diri kita sendiri.

Jadi hentikanlah menyalahkan orang lain, menyalahkan keadaan dan menyalahkan nasib. Dengan memperbaiki diri sendiri, cermin diri dan kaji diri kita mampu menikmati hidup yang lebih bahagia. Nasib kita terletak di tangan kita sendiri dan hanya kita yang mampu mengubahnya. Tiada siapa yang berhak mengatakan sebaliknya sebab semua insan berhak untuk bahagia. Namun terpulanglah pada kemahuan insan itu sendiri untuk memilih jalan hidupnya.

9 comments:

  1. Ini semua salah you, you and you..

    hehehe...

    dah biasa dengar terutama dalam organisasi sebab nak jaga performance sendiri. padahal salah sendiri pandai nak cover.

    Orang2 mcm ni sebenarnya boleh menjatuhkan organisasi

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  2. The malay pig have drawn up a plan to displace all non-malays. They are discriminating against all non-malays. More and more non-malays are leaving.

    You know why he/she need to leave……….? It is all because of those idiots who voted for the pig government to chase those talents out of this country.

    This scenario would stay.

    They would prefer to remain backward, so long as they are in control over you and me. I think they enjoy seeing non-malays 'begging' all the time.

    Even though they are left far behind Korea, Taiwan and now Thailand is coming up strong. To them these are not competitors. In their narrow mind, the 'enemies' are local non-malays. Must suppress, by all means.

    All malay pig are programmed to be promoted much faster ahead of non-malays the moment they join University Malaya. Soon University Malaya will be 'dominated' by malay pig and the ranking will slip further.

    Most of the malay pig in Malaysia cannot think clearly, their mind and thinking are clouded by such things as comfort zone, frog-in-a-well syndrome, ignorance, racial pride, stubbornness, etc.

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  3. Ask all malay pig go back to Indonesia.

    The malay pig make Malaysia become rubbish country. Without malay pig in Malaysia - Malaysia country will become same as Singapore or Taiwan.

    Where malay pig came from? Indonesia? Arab? Africa? What happened to our Orang Asli? They are the original settlers here, they should be the true real bumiputras. Not the babiputras we have here.

    What is wrong with the babiputras? Highest crime rates, highest divorce rates, highest number of criminals, highest number of drug users, highest number of rapists.

    A genetically flawed race (babiputras) cannot be fixed by politically.

    What have we got now?

    Brain drain, economic disparity getting wider, poor education system, racial segregation, widespread corruption, inefficiency and uncompetitive on the government departments and others.

    Sad. Sad. Sad. The question asked by many of my fellow Chinese is this - Why can't you just tell the malay pig to adopt Chinese culture which is superior?

    If you malay pig don't like the non-malays here, then go back to Sumatra, Jawa, or wherever your ancestors came from, and give this land back to its rightful master, the Orang Asli.

    If Malaysia is to divide into two countries with malay pig taking the east, and the west to the Chinese and the Indians - watch that the malay pig starting to migrate to the west illegally for a better future.

    It is no wonder Singapore is a country which is 50 years ahead of Malaysia.

    You know something - once outside the perimeters of Malaysia, these malay pig are so small in value even a dog has more value than them!

    Everything in Malaysia is a joke when it comes to the malay pig. They are laughed at by everyone in this world for being incompetent, lazy, useless morons.

    From research, this peninsular was part of the Siamese empire way before these malay pig from Indonesia invaded it.

    Still so thick skin, don't want to go back to Indonesia.

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  4. I am totally agree what you have said, those moron malays have no sense of 'malu'. For example, I find that most of those malay pig creature are dirty and smelly, but they still walking around proudly with that stinking and ugly look.

    Another example is most of them are poor, they can't afford a big luxury car. When they saw Chinese or Indian driving a big car, they are feeling distress and jealous.

    What a loser! Hey non-malays can afford a big car without depend on NEP policy. But you pathetic malay pig can't afford it even though with NEP policy help. Loser malay pig!

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  5. Yes, a lot of non-malays in Malaysia are leaving this country. But what the hell, they (babiputras) don't care. They are happy that we leave.

    I do agree with you of those you mentioned, our country is stepping backward, we are loosing in all aspects and yet overdue and retarded ministers are still available on shelf. The ministers think that they are the only ones capable and qualified to be there and not replaceable, otherwise the country could collapse.

    Looking at Afghanistan, Iran, Iraq likes looking at this country future. The well connected babiputras are getting richer. This government is spoon feeding the babiputras at this nation expense. I am sick of this country too.

    My advise is let them rot in their own stew.

    The Barisan government has achieved 0% in reversing the trend of racism.

    While South Africa has disbanded racism through the government's initiative after the global news onslaught, our government leaders are propagating FACISM and RACISM in every way.

    In term of racism, we are the most uncivilised country in the world. Look into our neighbouring countries of Asia, they are advancing economically on a straight forward objective, for their citizens.

    Whereas we are moving in deviationist path, widely off the international economic theory for the sole objective, of propelling the well being of a supreme race.

    Mahathir era is over, here we have Badawi. Is he changing the trend? Not a single sign of it.

    How about the future under Najib? Sad, sad. They have more camouflage in readiness.

    Hey, you pathetic cow and all the babiputras who have the same feeling/thinking like them. You don't feel shame being spoon feed by government using the taxpayers money?

    I guess all the protection policy make you all even more lazy and narrow minded and stupid. The majority of you once step out of the Malaysia soil will sure starve to death.

    Hoy, I think you should try some pork meat once a while to make you more intelligent a bit. Look at around the world region, anti pork meat countries are mostly rippled with starving and war or worst, non-stop crying for government policy protection.

    Fact is fact when you babiputras are stupid is always stupid - although it can be help by consistent protection and nourishment policy but the end result will not go far because the quality of gene is there.

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  6. Bodoh punya melayu babi……….

    Baik balik ke tanah melayu la. We are natives of Sabah and Sarawak land - buat apa kamu punya orang datang sini menjajah kita oh?

    Kita tak suka kamu orang datang sini mengorek sumber petroleum tanah kita - this Sabah and Sarawak land not belongs to your malays.

    Get out from Sabah and Sarawak la!

    Bodoh melayu babi!

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  7. This malay pig race is so stupid, that they'd never amount to anything in this world.

    This message board has been here for awhile, and if anyone goes back, there is no one message, that talks good about this stupid malay pig race, because everybody knows how stupid, and hateful this malay pig race is all about.

    The malay pig will crumble from internal weaknesses and disappear in era of globalization - no need for others to colonize them.

    Because malay pig like to be parasites and feed on the Chinese income tax!

    Wait until the malay pig population increase to 90% in Malaysia, the same ratio as in Indonesia, then you will know the meaning of poor, as there will be too many malay pig to subsidize.

    Then the economy collapse.

    The malay pig are actually digging their own grave and they are trying to dig a deeper and bigger one now.

    But all of them I have to see are being manipulated by certain top malay politicians so they will support them.

    There show that the general malay pig are quite stupid and can't think outside the box.

    Only 1% of the malay pig can make it and they are the exceptions. If malay pig are not stupid, what are they?

    If all malay pig jump into sea and all die!

    This world will become very very beautiful.

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  8. AKU PUN TERKENA KOMEN RACIST NI...

    NAMPAK JER BANYAK TAPI PENGIRIMNYA SEORANG... SATU JER MATLAMAT NYER NAK BAGI KITA MARAH...

    BILA KITA MARAH KITA JADI TAK WARAS NANTI

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  9. ala... pandai je cakap melayu babi. siapa yang makan babi? melayu ke? jijik betul.

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